Men can be very direct with their bros, but sometimes, they are the complete opposite when it comes to women. For some, it’s hard to be direct, and while sometimes they know what they want, they are afraid to say it. So ladies, it is up to you to decipher what he’s trying to say, no matter how confusing it is, our dating experts here at South Jersey Matchmakers are going to teach you.
The problem with deciphering mixed signals is that women often have their judgement clouded by what the man is trying to do. Maybe he did lose his phone or perhaps he did fall asleep and forget to call you. Today, our South Jersey Matchmakers will show you how to decipher his mixed signals to figure out what is going on and where you stand
South Jersey Matchmakers Teach You How to Decipher His Mixed Signals
Everyone sends mixed signals, but it’s women who are sometimes more attuned to these nuisances. Are you confused with what your man is trying to say? Here we’ll show you what he is really saying, so read on and pay attention! We promise it will make your dating life easier.
1. He says he’s into you but doesn’t want something serious.
If a man tells you he’s into you but doesn’t want something serious, leave him and don’t invest another second in him. If he really likes you, not only will he tell you he likes you, but he’ll show you because he wants to be with you. He will do whatever it takes to show the world he found a woman he wants to date.
If a man says he is not ready for a relationship, then that’s fine because he’s being honest with you. But at the same time, he should not tell you he likes you but doesn’t want something serious. If you are already giving him all the benefits out of a relationship (without actually being in one), then he is not likely desire any changes with your status because he’s comfortable with what he has. Don’t think you’ll change his mind in time because you won’t.
2. He texts to see what’s up but never makes an official phone call.
This guy is great at the texting game, always wanting to know what you’re up to and where you are. He’s great at responding to you, no problem, but when you dial his number to see what he’s doing, he mysteriously never answers your calls.
Why didn’t he answer? He is probably just texting you to check up on you, and probably texting other women he checks up on too. He is checking to see what woman will be doing what and when. And although this may sting a bit, he will most likely see the woman he likes the most. And if you were that woman, he would have answered your phone call—ouch!
3. He doesn’t want it to be public on Facebook.
This man might not like the idea of putting a label on the relationship, especially when it comes to Facebook. Maybe he told you some lies that he is a public figure and that putting a label on Facebook could damage his reputation.
Yes, our South Jersey Matchmakers know there are many different opinions when it comes to the relationship status on Facebook, but if a man is really into a woman, he will have no problem changing his status to say he’s in a relationship. A man in a relationship (without it being listed on Facebook) is the equivalent of a man taking off his wedding ring to go out clubbing. Don’t fall for this one.
4. He wants you to come over.
You might have always gotten very excited every time he texted you to come over, but now you’re starting to realize that the only time the two of you hang out is at his place, and it’s not to watch movies like he said but rather to hook up.
When you go to his place, all you do is hook up. You are basically giving him all the perks of being in a committed relationship without actually being in one. If a man really likes you, our South Jersey Matchmakers know he will do whatever it takes to make you feel special. He will take you out on romantic dates, invite you out to movies, but most importantly, he will be the one coming your way.
So the next time this guy asks you to come over, change things up a bit and ask him to come your way. Mention going out to eat, going bowling, or going to catch a movie, then see what he says.
5. He texts you at weird hours.
Well, this one is self-explanatory, because what he’s doing here is using you as a booty call. If you get a message from a man after midnight, he is not really into you. He is just using you for sex.
He has probably been out all night at the bars with his friends (trying to pick up other women). He is probably filled with booze, bored, and feeling unlucky from not being able pick up women at the bars. Our South Jersey Matchmakers don’t want you to fall for this man because he is just using you.
6. He takes a long time to respond.
If you have been texting this man and he all the sudden disappears, take it as a signal that he’s playing you. If you don’t hear back from him for days, or even weeks on end, this man is not the right man for you.
In this modern world, we’re all connected to our mobile devices and social media accounts, so there is no reason why he should not have responded. If this man has a job, then we can guarantee his phone is fully charged. No, his dog didn’t chew it up, and he got your text, but he is most likely ignoring it.
Here at South Jersey Matchmakers, we know that women tend to overanalyze a man’s mixed signals because it’s easier than accepting the truth. But doing this is not going to help you in the dating world. In fact, it gives him more time to keep you at an arm’s length. Cut the cord today and leave this man behind!
If you’re ready to start meeting relationship-minded men in New Jersey, contact our expert matchmakers today to find out how we can help you. Simply fill out the application at the top of the page to get started!
