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New Year’s resolutions always get a bad rap for being fruitless.  However, making relationship resolutions to improve the bond with your partner can actually be beneficial, especially if you do them together.  If you’ve been searching the web for relationship resolutions, then you just struck gold because today our New Jersey dating experts here at South Jersey Matchmakers are going to show you how to bring the spark back to your relationship in 2018.  Get ready to bring back the fun, love, and excitement in the upcoming year!

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1. Do nice things together.

Everyone feels generous around the holiday season, and maybe you did a little volunteering in December.  But everyone expects people to do that around the holidays.  Unfortunately, these organizations need help every month of the year.  So why not grab your partner and do a little volunteering together.  Not only will make a huge impact on the lives on others, but it will also make a big impact on each of your lives, as well as the relationship.  So, you see?  The Christmas love doesn’t have to end in December—you can keep the love-giving all year long.

2. Start eating mindfully.

When you’re in a relationship, it’s easy to get lazy and start chowing down on buckets of Chinese food, pizza, and alcoholic beverages as you settle at home on the couch watching your favorite movies.  Not only can this pack on an extra few pounds around the belly, but it also kills the intimacy in your relationship.  Ordering takeout and eating junk doesn’t allow you to prepare any delicious food together.  Cooking healthy foods can actually create a bond between you and your partner, and it’s better and healthier than all that junk food.  It will help you look and feel healthier and give you something to look forward to together.

3. Start sweating together.

Ready to shed those extra ten pounds you gained over the holiday season?  We don’t blame you—we understand.  But why do it alone when you can enlist the help of your partner and have a wonderful workout buddy to keep you motivated, and vice versa.  You don’t have to be overweight to start a fitness regimen.  Even if you’re already into working out, it doesn’t hurt to take things up a notch and try something new.

Regardless whether you’re new to the fitness scene or not, exercising with your partner is also a great way to bring the spark back to your relationship.  Everyone knows that those rosy cheeks, glistening skin, and heavy breathing will ignite the spark in your relationship—speaking of which…

4. Make intimacy a priority.

People get so caught up in routines that they forget about intimacy.  We get it, everyone is busy nowadays.  But if you don’t prioritize intimacy, you’re going to lose the spark with your partner.  Now, intimacy doesn’t just mean sex.  Although that helps, intimacy is more than that.  Schedule a vacation together where you and your partner can spend quality time reconnecting.

5. Give them your undivided attention.

When you’re spending quality time with your partner, does your phone continuous beep and chirp?  Do you scroll through your texts as your partner is talking?  Are you on social media as you’re eating dinner together?  Well, it’s time to stop doing those things and start giving your partner the undivided attention they deserve.  Take it from us, this one simple tip can make a world of difference in your relationship.

6. Treat your partner as a friend.

It’s easy to take your partner for granted, and sometimes we do.  Make 2018 the year you start treating them like a good friend.  Ask yourself if you say or do things to your partner that you wouldn’t say or do to your best friend.  And if you do, then it’s time to change those things.

The entire team of relationship experts here at South Jersey Matchmakers wants to wish you and your partner a happy and healthy year ahead.  We hope that you follow these relationship resolutions to bring back the spark and make your relationship happier and healthier in the coming year.

If you’re single and want to find love in the new year, contact our New Jersey matchmakers today and let us help you find it.  To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!

 

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