Cherry Hill Matchmakers Reveal Top 5 Tips to Get Over Your Ex

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Dealing with heartbreak and getting over a boyfriend you loved very much is one the hardest things in the world.

A breakup can destroy your life and rip a wound in your heart that can take a long time to heal, a gashing wound that feels like it may never heal.

The hurt is inevitable.

And fortunately, so is the recovery.

Today, our Cherry Hill matchmakers here at the leading dating service in New Jersey are going to show you the best ways to get over a breakup and move on with your life.

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1. Stop all contact.

You may have broken up, but just like the courtship of falling in love, breaking up with someone comes with its own rules too.

You have walked away from the relationship, but you have more to do now.

First of all, as difficult as it will be, you need to put an end to all communication with your ex.

Delete his number from your phone, delete him from all your social media accounts, take him off your Skype account and remove him from your Google chat. You need to erase him from any communication channels you might’ve used.

It’s hard, but it’s something you must do in order to get over him fast. Being constantly aware of what’s going on in his life will only delay the healing process.

2. Don’t let him know you’re in pain.

Now this one is key. Humans are sadistic, no matter how nice we all are, If your boyfriend know that you’re in pain, it would only make him emotionally stronger to keep a straight face no matter how much pain you’re going through. Don’t call him up while you’re crying, or tell him how much you miss him. His response will only make you suffer more.

You need to avoid him and make him believe that you’re already over him and are enjoying your life to the fullest.

3. Say away from his friends.     

After a breakup, try to stay away from his circle of friends. This can be very hard if you share a lot of common friends, but hanging out with the same people who hang out with him won’t help you get over him. Hanging out with his friends or your common friends will only bring back memories, or they may try to talk to you about the breakup which can reopen your wound.

4. Lock up his love.

Over the months or years, both of you may have exchanged a lot of gifts and memorabilia. Lock them away so you don’t have to see it every day. Put away all those love letters, the tickets to the movies and the watch he gave you for your birthday. It won’t just hurt to see it all the time, it’ll also rekindle a one sided romance.

5. Don’t be lonely.

As much as you would love sitting at home all alone, don’t do it.

You’ve broken up. It’s over! Should you really be sulking in your room every day of the week? All of us love to be by ourselves after a painful breakup, but you really have to convince yourself to go out and have fun. Stay busy and hangout with your friends. Loneliness is actually the biggest hurdle on your road for healing after a breakup.

Breakups are tough, one of the toughest things we go through in life. Although the road to healing won’t be easy, it’s not impossible. Follow this advice from our Cherry Hill matchmakers and you’ll be back on your feet again in no time.

If you’re ready to start dating again, contact our professional matchmakers and let us help you find true love. Let us introduce you to quality singles in New Jersey who are fit to date and compatible with you. Let us help you find the one who will never break your heart.

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